Showing posts with label Laura Schroff. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Laura Schroff. Show all posts

Sunday, February 16, 2014

The Importance of Reflection


Reflection is one of the key components of PBL and for good reason. One of the things PBL affords students is the chance to understand why they're learning what they're learning. Students shouldn't be sitting in class wondering how their course work relates to them or their world. Reflection gives students a way to contemplate the relevance and importance of their learning, and it also lets teachers know that the students are grasping the material in a deep and significant way. The feedback loop in PBL keeps students and teachers aligned in their learning goals.

Following is an example of student work that displays the kind of deep learning that can take place with PBL. The assignment -- which offered students voice and choice, another key component of PBL -- asked a class of juniors to discuss how they saw the American dream, after seeing it from a myriad of perspectives over the first semester of an American literature course. Students had read The Things They Carried by Tim O'Brien and The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot over the summer; during the first semester, they also read The Scarlet Letter and The Crucible and had become familiar with Romanticism and the Romantic hero.

PBL also makes sure that student work has authentic purpose. In this class, students chose a type of injustice in America today and investigated it in groups, sharing their findings with the class; they also had to read one article from a New York Times series about American children living in poverty. Finally, the class planned and executed an Acts of Kindness Day on December 26, in honor of the 26 victims of Newtown and as a way to begin addressing unfair treatment in American society.


Here is Liat's wonderful assessment of the semester. We particularly like the personal details she includes in the essay, discussing her great-grandfather's experience with the American dream:

Reflections on the Semester
Had I been asked four months ago to define the “American Dream,” I would have answered with a laugh and resorted to cliche.  “To live the American Dream is to raise a family with 2.5 perfect children, and to own a large, spotless house--complete with a white picket fence and a dog (probably a Golden Retriever).” Had you asked me the same question one month ago, however, I would have hemmed and hawed and been forced to deliberate my answer--finally declaring that based on my discussions in English class, there is no concrete definition of the notion of the “American Dream.” But ask me today and you’ll find my answer is far more long-winded (five and a half pages, to be exact). To me, the American Dream was not, is not, and cannot ever be a static idea, but rather is one that is constantly changing and is reflective of our history.  But however one defines the American Dream at a particular point in our nation’s timeline, the concept of “opportunity” is a central theme throughout its course.

In the early 1600’s, the Pilgrims fled Europe for the New World.  In their version of the American Dream, America was not a place where individuals could practice religion as they saw fit; but rather, America was a haven from religious persecution, where the pilgrims could enjoy the liberty of starting their very own theocracy. The Dream underwent a transformation when the Bill of Rights was signed into law in 1791. It promised certain, inalienable protections to each and every resident of the U.S.A., including freedom of religion, freedom of speech, and freedom of the press.  A citizen living the American Dream could voice open expression of his ideas and be whomever he chose to be.  Following the civil rights movement of the 1960’s, an essential part of the American Dream’s new identity became the new freedoms the United States offered to minorities and people of color.  With the advent of feminism in the seventies, the American Dream morphed into one of equality of the sexes.  A woman could now own the American Dream in the same way as a man, expecting the same freedoms and opportunities which he enjoyed.

Alongside all of these versions of the American Dream, there has existed a parallel text of the American Dream.  In the late 18th century, enterprising opportunists first sought to buy huge tracts of farmland. In the 19th century, young men journeyed west in the Gold Rush.  In the early 20th century, Jewish immigrants left their homes and communities to reach the “Goldene Medina.” This trend continues through today, as America has been known as the land for great personal financial growth. There is, however, a huge flaw in the American Dream that I’ve witnessed throughout this semester’s class, and that is that individual Americans often fail to live up to these evolving expectations.

In the literary works that we have read so far this year, the American Dream has proved elusive to many characters--both fictional and nonfictional. In Nathaniel Hawthorne's The Scarlet Letter, Hester, a true romantic hero, journeys to America knowing full well that she will be living in a Puritan theocracy. Despite this prior knowledge, Hester still feels trapped by the confines of her community, and seeks refuge in the forest or by the sea. As my group came to understand, through a deep analysis of the symbols of town, forest and sea, Hester cannot truly escape the “town,” which represents societal and religious ideals, into the uncontained “forest” and “sea,” both of which represent the ability to make different choices and the capacity for human growth and change. At the conclusion of the story, Hester’s daughter decides not to follow her mother back to America.  I would suggest that both she and her mother have been disillusioned by the scope of the American Dream, and that the narrow freedoms it offers are still too restrictive.

Arthur Miller's The Crucible can be read on an allegorical level as the story of the failure of the American Dream.  In the fifties, McCarthy began to point fingers at his political enemies, igniting a frenzy that was akin to the Salem witchcraft hunt of the 17th century.   Miller himself was blacklisted and, I believe, this experience taught him that the freedoms of individual expression are tenuous and not guaranteed, despite the promises of the First Amendment.  

In Tim O'Brien's book, The Things They Carried, the author relates fictional stories of soldiers during the Vietnam War. During the war, young men were forcibly drafted into the army and into a war that they did not support, believe in or even understand.  I think that O’Brien is presenting a highly critical picture of the callousness of our leaders in sending these young men off to die, and is calling the government out on its failure to protect the rights of the individual.

In Rebecca Skloot’s, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, Henrietta and her family are wronged by the American scientific community on multiple levels.  Henrietta’s personal freedoms were violated when the doctors failed to get informed consent on the use of her cells.  Though there was no active cover-up in the successive two decades, during which the civil rights movement was taking hold, I believe that her descendants were failed by silence--by the passive acceptance of those involved that there was no need to acknowledge Henrietta’s pivotal role.

At the beginning of the semester, when we were asked to write a Declaration of Independence, I declared myself independent from “The Patriarchy that is 21st Century American Society.”  I recognized a series of blatant strikes against the Dream as I wrote about male-centered language, male privilege, slut shaming, indecent media portrayal of women in the media, unequal job opportunity, and unfair wage gaps. I can only hope that I will not be disappointed in adulthood when it is my turn to transform my Dream into a reality, and that I will find the true equality of men and women that it promises.

As I sit here reflecting on this semester (or rather half reflecting and half lamenting the end of shiriyah!), I envision the possibility of success and am not convinced that all American Dream stories need to end in failure or disillusionment, though it makes for good reading and discussion.  Over Thanksgiving weekend, my grandmother shared some fascinating family history with me.   As it turns out, my great-grandfather, Grandpa Sam z”l, was a hobo during the Great Depression. As an 18 year-old, he was without employment for over a year.  He rode the rails from coast to coast looking for day work, earning a pittance in order to keep from starving.  He received occasional handouts from the Salvation Army and benefited from meals in their soup kitchens.  But, years later, he managed to become an insurance salesman, marry my great-grandmother, buy a house, raise a family and send his two daughters off to college. This is the quintessential story of the American Dream!  Given the opportunity, a man pulls himself up by his bootstraps, forges ahead with will and passion, and achieves success–familial, professional and financial.

Last year, The New York Times published a series of articles called The Invisible Child, detailing the life of Dasani, a homeless girl living in New York City.  At the conclusion of the series, Dasani and her family are transferred out of the decaying, moldy, unsafe shelter they had been living in, into their own three-bedroom apartment with a kitchen. They settle in and they are ecstatic to finally have their own place; in their minds, they are living the American Dream. Their transition to a new home is due entirely to the work of the department of social services.  I wonder if this one small act will change the course of Dasani’s life for the better (and I look forward to reading any follow-up articles!)

Concluding the semester with “Twenty-Six Acts of Kindness Day” was incredibly meaningful for me. On that first Wednesday in December, as I sat down to listen to Ms. Schroff [Laura Schroff, author of An Invisible Thread, came to speak to the students and returned to share our Acts of Kindness day with Frisch], I knew that this would be a very different kind of program than I had experienced in the past. The manner in which Ms. Schroff spoke was so genuine that I became convinced that the notion that “one small act of kindness can change a life” had some legitimacy to it.  In the week after, as we prepared for “Twenty-Six Acts of Kindness Day,” I became more and more enamored by the idea and enjoyed thinking up acts that seemed like doable and realistic goals for students.  I felt a surge of pride as I stood at the sign-up table and saw the numbers for myself: 193 people in the Frisch community participated, and we accomplished a total of 233 acts of kindness! Sure, we had sponsored chessed [acts of kindness[ days before, but juxtaposed to Ms. Schroff’s and Maurice’s talks, and with the backdrop of honoring the 26 victims of the Newton Massacre, it felt more meaningful.


Grandpa Sam, Maurice, and Dasani serve as proof that the American Dream can be realized, though so many great writers choose to acknowledge its failure.  But perhaps we would not recognize the American Dream successes without being able to contrast them to the failures.  As I wrote in my Thanksgiving piece earlier this semester, one can only understand light when it is held up against the dark.  With drive and perhaps a little bit of goodwill from others, we can all take advantage of the opportunities living in America affords.  Light can emerge from the darkness.

Friday, December 27, 2013

26 Acts of Kindness Day at The Frisch School

Oren ('16) created this logo for our Acts of Kindness Day;
the logo graced the homepage of The Frisch School's website yesterday
Last year, after the horror of the shooting at the Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, CT, a Twitter hashtag #26Acts encouraged people to do 26 acts of kindness on December 26 in honor of the 26 victims of the massacre. We participated, blogging about the day here, and decided to repeat the experience this year, since it was such a moving one.

However, our Acts of Kindness Day took on a significantly deeper meaning because of a student's initiative. At the end of the last school year, Talia ('15) took a Twitter chat final in my [Tikvah Wiener's] class. Inspired by Ken Gordon of PEJE and JEDLAB, who speaks often about making connections and cultivating interesting relationships, I asked the students, for the final, to reach out to the authors of their outside reading books (provided the authors are still living; anyone who can get in touch with Shakespeare gets MAJOR extra credit). Talia had read An Invisible Thread by Laura Schroff, and she contacted Laura who wasn't able to get back to her until after our final. Nevertheless, the two began corresponding, with the result being Laura's speaking at Frisch on December 11, a few weeks ago. 

The entire student body as well as parents who had read the book heard Laura tell about her inspiring story: how she stopped one day on the street to take an 11-year-old boy named Maurice Mazyck out to eat, since he was homeless and hungry, and how 28 years later they are like mother and son. Laura's visit to Frisch moved us all.

When we were preparing for her speaking event, Laura mentioned her acts of kindness pledge, which she has posted on her website and is encouraging the public to participate in. Her acts are partly based on the activities she and Maurice particularly enjoyed doing when he was growing up, such as sharing meals and baking cookies. When I mentioned Frisch's Acts of Kindness Day and said we would incorporate An Invisible Thread's acts of kindness pledge into it, Laura immediately decided to spend the day with us. But she brought a surprise: Maurice! 

What better way to kick off an Acts of Kindness Day
than with Laura Schroff and Maurice Mazyck,
whose relationship is based on an act of kindness?
The excitement in the auditorium was palpable as Laura entered the room with her surprise guest, and students saw that it was Maurice, whom they had only seen in a video the day Laura initially spoke at the school. Thundering applause welcomed Maurice, as he ran down the aisles and high-fived the students. Then he and Laura spoke, telling of the profound impact acts of kindness have on people and the fact that we don't know how our moments of compassion can help or save a life. 

Students were so excited to meet Maurice and to see Laura again!
They had been so touched and inspired by their story.
We were delighted that Laura also brought her co-author Alex Tresniowski to Frisch to share our acts of kindness day. Alex, who wrote for People magazine for many years, covering human interest and crime stories, is now at work on a book about the unique love story of two Holocaust survivors. We can't wait to read that as well!

After the schoolwide address, we checked one item off of our acts of kindness list for the day: sharing a meal with someone we care about. Students in my junior English class, who had worked tremendously hard putting the day together, as well as the students in Ramp It Up, RealSchool's literacy program, ate breakfast with Laura and Maurice. 

Talia ('15), who got this WHOLE thing started with her email, Laura,
Maurice, and Rabbi Ciner pose in front of our McFrisch sign! 
Breakfast at McFrisch!
We created McFrisch, turning the conference room into a kosher McDonald's, since McDonald's was the restaurant Laura took Maurice to when she first met him. It was also a place they returned to often over the years. Thanks to Frisch's chef Kimberly Carey who made kosher egg McMuffins and Tator Tots for the occasion! For the rest of the day, we had students write on the McFrisch sign an act of kindness they had performed, and when Laura and Maurice left, we gave the sign to them.

At 10 am, the next part of the day got underway. Frisch parents Patty Borodach and Sari Schiff chaperoned students to a homeless shelter and an old age home. Last year, our acts of kindness were all on campus, but this year we wanted to go off site as well. Of course, the students are used to going off campus, on chessed [community service] trips, and Rabbi Josh Schulman, Frisch's Director of Chessed, had arranged for students to work with special needs children this week in Friendship Circle camp, something Frisch does every year at this time. 

We added to the chessed program with the trips to the homeless shelter and old age home, thinking some non-profits might be understaffed during Christmas week. The students proved very helpful at the old age home, where they were needed not only to visit the elderly but to do office work. The homeless shelter was a big success as well, with the YWCA Women's Shelter of Elizabeth telling us Frisch can return anytime. From the reaction of the students to the trip there, I think that may happen soon!

Going off site to do chessed, with our wonderful parent chaperones 
Esther ('15) makes this cute baby smile!
Eitan and Arianna ('15) play games with the kids at the shelter.
We collected educational games and donated them to the shelter when we came.
Ronit and Arianna have fun with the kids!
At a home for the elderly in Passaic!
Back at school, students were signing up to do acts of kindness and getting to hang with Laura and Maurice as they did so. Thanks to you both, Laura and Maurice, for signing books and taking countless photos during the day!

Students sign up to perform 26 acts of kindness 
Maurice and Talia
In preparation for the day, my junior English class, who has spent the semester learning about the American dream and how it sometimes fails, and my Hot Topics SIM CITY class, which has been busy creating a virtual world, got the chance to make the real America a kinder place. My juniors prepared the list of the 26 acts of kindness, basing it on Laura's acts of kindness pledge. Here are the acts we came up with:


1.      Hold the door for other people
2.      Be quiet during davening [ prayer] so others can pray
3.      Share a snack with your class
4.      Smile at a stranger
5.      Buy lunch for a friend
6.      Say ‘thank you’ to all staff
7.      Cheer up a sad friend
8.      Lend someone a pen/pencil
9.      Donate your change from lunch/ breakfast to tzedakah [charity]
10.  Help someone who is struggling with homework or a test
11.  Throw your garbage out when you’re done eating
12.  Help someone open their locker
13.  Say ‘sorry’ when you bump into someone
14.  Compliment somebody
15.  Start a conversation with someone in your grade you usually don’t talk to
16.  Write a nice note to someone
17.  Lend someone a sweater because it’s always cold in school
18.  Clean up after someone who left a mess
19.  Get your teacher a beverage of their choice
20.  Give your old notes to someone in a lower grade
21.  Expand your lunch table
22.  Call your grandparents
23.  Text your mom/dad you love them
24.  Do something nice for your sibling(s)
25.  Leave change in the copy machine for the next person
26.  Do something nice for yourself

Michele Gudis ('15) came up with the idea of having QR codes that you scan to give you a slide show of compliments. Here are the flattering things the class had to say to their fellow Frisch students:


1.      You look really nice today
2.      You look so pretty when you smile
3.      You’re a good friend
4.      All your friends worry they aren’t as funny as you
5.      You are the most charming person in a 50-mile vicinity
6.      You could pull off orange corduroy
7.      9/10 dentists agree you are the best
8.      Rumor has it Disney is basing their next cartoon on you
9.      You’re sweet as a can of artificially flavored diet soda
10.  The kid you passed on the street today wants to grow up to be just like you
11.  You’re funny. Like, LOL style
12.  Your hair looks great today; it also looked really good two days ago
13.  That song was definitely written for you
14.  Your cousins refer to you as the cool cousin
15.  Never change, you’re the best you
16.  Every country is jealous that you’re a citizen in this country
17.  Those shoes were a great call
18.  You deserve a piece of chocolate
19.  Your parents are more proud of you than you will ever know
20.  Today’s outfit = thumbs up
21.  You actually looked super graceful that time you tripped in front of everyone
22.  You did a really nice thing today
23.  You rock the gym uniform
24.  You’re wonderful
25.  If I had a golden ticket I would give it to you
26.  You doodle like Picasso

We really love #21!

The juniors also arranged the off site trips, made the McFrisch sign, contacted Google about changing its logo for the day to the one Oren created (Google never got back to us, but we like the big dreaming thinking!), drew artworks about kindness and cyberkindness, and created an exhibit about literary acts of kindness.

On the left is the QR code of compliments,
while the word doodle about kindness and the student-made take on cyberkindness
are in the middle

This is what we based our student-made cyberkindness poster on;
it's one of our favorite school posters!
My Hot Topics SIM CITY class was responsible for an exhibit to end racism, based on the book The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, which depicts the awful effects of segregation and racism in early and mid-twentieth-century America. Maurice immediately took a picture under our End Racism sign.

The Hot Topics students also had fun converting the freshman lounge into a napping station and hair and manicure salon for the lunch periods of the day. After all, act of kindness #26 was "Do something nice for yourself."

Seniors Ben and Jacob set up napping stations for students to enjoy
during their lunch periods
If Google can have napping pods, why can't we?!
The freshman lounge became a spa for our Acts of Kindness Day

In the afternoon, we had the pleasure of having Frisch alumnus Ariel Sterman share with various classes the good work he's been doing. Have you heard of Good St.? Well, you should check it out:



Ariel and a group of friends at NYU have started this awesome organization, which has participants donate a quarter a day and then get to choose from a selection of two charities Good St. proposes, each of which addresses a particular cause of the day. Yesterday's cause, for example, was childhood obesity, and participants could choose to donate their quarter to a charity that teaches fitness and health to kids or to one that gets kids active and moving. 

We loved that Ariel shared the good he's doing in the world with our students and also showed them how to be entrepreneurial and proactive. Student-driven learning is something you know we're passionate about!

Ariel shows how Good St. funds get divided between the two daily charities
We love that Good St. gets donors engaged with the giving process
Seniors got to shmooze with Ariel about how to get a non-profit up and running
Maurice, Laura, and Ariel
The day wouldn't be complete without a video crew documenting it all. Thanks so much to Daniel, Oren, and Ayal ('16) who captured the day on film and are now working on a video about it. 

Maurice and Laura stop to film for the video crew
Our film crew (and me) with Laura and Maurice

Finally: there are really no words to describe the sadness and horror we feel over what happened in Newtown last year, and we still cannot imagine the pain and anguish that the parents and loved ones of the victims must live with. We can only offer our acts of kindness as a gesture to them, as an affirmation that despite the senseless violence and hatred that exist in the world, the majority of people in it, we believe, want to do and be good, and if there's a way to pay that good forward, we will do everything in our power to find it.

I mentioned to some of my colleagues and friends, after Laura's first visit to Frisch when I saw how moved the students were by her and Maurice's story, that if they are society's "rock stars," that is, if their story is the one having such a profound effect on people, then the world can't be such a bad place. 

"How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single minute before starting to improve the world." 
               -- Anne Frank